tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6683487156405489500.post4120620490198872069..comments2023-03-25T04:14:11.374-07:00Comments on Small and Simple Things...: Horrible hurts and other misadventures - making sense of it allbonniemomof5http://www.blogger.com/profile/06954218038919481909noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6683487156405489500.post-16023505277523212542009-01-15T13:25:00.000-08:002009-01-15T13:25:00.000-08:00Bonnie - you are loved! I am so grateful that you ...Bonnie - you are loved! I am so grateful that you are my friend. I love that we had our last babies 2 days apart and that you came to see me right before I delivered which was right before you were discharged. I also love that our oldest boys are buddies. They should have more play dates...actually WE should have "play dates" for us to just hang out and have fun. I am really good at getting caught up with things but it is actually my resolution for 2009 to be a better friend and to reconnect with people. Thanks for the wakeup call. I don't know what I've been waiting for. Also, just want to say I admire you for being so candid on your blog. I don't think I could do that. You are very brave!Jonashttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04011481910812607700noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6683487156405489500.post-84011141237186644882009-01-15T09:57:00.000-08:002009-01-15T09:57:00.000-08:00I am so sorry you feel this way. I know we talked...I am so sorry you feel this way. I know we talked about this a few times when I was still there. I am sad to hear you don't feel any better about it. Personally, I don't think people know what you need unless you tell them. I might have felt like I would be an extra burden if I walked up and tried to "help" with your son. some people would be offended by that so that might have been why many did not step in. Anyway, I hope you express your feelings soon rather than stay in a painful place...Lisahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01515825574378521846noreply@blogger.com